Being faithful and monogamous is not natural for human beings. It takes work. Deep down we all know that. We have all been tempted to stray at some point or another. Even when it was only a fleeting thought and we didn’t act on it. Every time we acknowledge that someone of the opposite sex is “attractive” or “sexy” we are doing nothing other than pointing out that they would be a suitable mate. Not acting on that natural impulse to want to mate with a viable mating partner requires a conscious decision. It’s a constant struggle between what your body wants, and what the civilized part of your brain says you should do, in order to avoid the negative consequences of cheating on your spouse and ruining your long-term relationship. That’s why affairs, and extra-marital sex, are often referred to as “a moment of weakness.
where did you go? ” he asked
where did you go” I asked as well?
I ask you a question and you ask me a question are you insane ” he asked
I went out with my friends” I said removing my shoes
which friends because I called all your friends and denied seeing or being with you “he said
Caleb am not in the mood for your drama ” I said
I walked away. he followed me.
this is not you; you are supposed to be home taking care of our kids but you are busy going out ” he complained.
you can’t stay home and take care of our sons, am sick and tired of your nagging ” I said
am nagging ” he asked
what’s wrong with you aaiii?” he asked
what’s wrong is that my husband doesn’t trust me” I said
whatever ” he walked
my phone rung and it was my girl Maria
mama” I answered
where did you go ” she whispered?
I went out ” I answered
where your husband has been calling like crazy “she said
let him call” I said
Sharon you are married for Christ sake, those infidelity of yours won’t take you anywhere” she said
so, it’s okay for a man to cheat but not a lady right ” I asked
infidelity of a man doesn’t break a home ” she said
any whatever ” I hung
I went to our room, so I went to kabwe and it was amazing my darling kabwe warrior spoiled me rotten, the sex just was off this moon.
do you know that your son has been sick “he
Caleb you are a doctor you can’t heal him ” I asked removing my clothes.
don’t you know that, he also needs his mother around huh” he yelled
don’t yell at me okay ” I said
I got my towel and took a bath.
the sex that Andrew gave me, it was all fabulous,
I put in my nighty dress and went to check up on malumbo. indeed, he wasn’t feeling well his body temperature was high.
mummy ” he said with his eyes closed
am here, you want me to sleep with you ” I asked
yes mummy ” he said
okay my little man ” I said
I slept next to him.
in a week time, he was back to his feet and busy making noise in the house.
chuma walked in looking hot, this is my body goals after baby. Caleb’s family were just perfect, these people when God was creating them, he indeed took his time …
hey you ” she said lifting malumbo up
big mama ” he said
big mama misses you, arent you going with me today ” she asked
am going” he said
this your boy, he is growing up so fast ” she said
he is big ” I said
when am I holding another family member” she said?
soon ” I said
how soon, you need to pop out those babies because if you reach 35 you won’t be able to look this hot” she laughed
am done with two, the way Caleb did me bad, I have a bad experience with pregnancy” I said
come on ” she laughed
Caleb walked in; he looks different .in a bad way though he had lost a bit of weight.
what’s wrong with you, your wife hasn’t been feeding you well ” she teased
she has work has been stressing me of late ” he said
daddy big mama is here to get me,” malumbo said
why do you let him call you that?” he asked
I love it ” she said
yes, even tell Caleb, big mama is home alone ” he said
where is everyone ” I asked
they went to see my in-laws” she said
and you didn’t go ” he asked
please my mother in-law is just something else ” she said
Blessings pack few clothes for the boys,” I said
okay madam” blessings said.
I prepared lunch and dished out for everyone. Caleb barely eats and my husband enjoys my food. chuma left and I started cleaning our room.
I told maria that I had a boyfriend but I never told jasmine because I know she will start judging and I wasn’t in the mood for her judgment.
Andrew called that he had a surprise for me and I couldn’t wait though I had a bad feeling about going.
babe let’s do it another day ” I suggested
I want today babe” he said
okay let me just shower” I said
okay babe ” he hung up.
I called maria we chatted a bit than got ready. I wore my blue ripped jeans and red pumps with a black leather jacket.
I put the phone in my pocket and I was good to go …it was 18 and the good part was Caleb called that he will be home later and I wasn’t in the mood for his nagging.
his house was dark, I called him and he told me to come in.
I entered, do you know those club light, like different colors, you can’t see anyone face but you can. see their bodies.
babe switch the lights on” I said
no, my love ” he said
I can’t see your face.my love ” I said
come here ” he kissed me
you are scaring me “I said
I love you ” he said
I love you too babe ” I said
I didn’t know that love can be this beautiful, babe you have showed me the true meaning of love, I love you rose and I can’t wait to spend the rest of your life with me ” he said
bae that’s so sweet” I said
will you marry me Rose?” he asked
oh my gosh I don’t know what to say ” I stammered
just say yes” he said
the lights were on and the men I date were standing next to Andrew.
say yes rose ” Caleb said. I became weak…
I didn’t know what I was going to say.
your cousin here helped me plan this day ” Andrew said
this is all for the love I have for you Rose ” Caleb said
Caleb please ” I said
Caleb, I thought he was Joe” Andrew said
this woman here, dear Andrew she is a married, she has kids ” Caleb said
wait what ” Andrew said
she has been sleeping with you idiots and you couldn’t ask about her family or know where she stays with, the only thing you were worried about was her pussy, you can keep her I don’t need her ” Caleb walked away.
why did you lie ” Andrew asked?
not now please” I said
I followed Caleb.
babe. am sorry ” I cried
you are sorry really, you come to the house and pack all your things, I don’t need you, I want a divorce” he said
Caleb you can’t do that ” I said
watch me ” he said
I held his leg.
before I do anything stupid let go of my leg, you disgust me ” he said
he had tears in his eyes. you could tell from his voice that he was hurt.
I got in the cab and went home. I found him, holding a bottle of whiskey.
babe please ” I cried
go in there and pack all your clothes ” he said
why did I get myself in this mess, how am I going to explain to my mother that I failed to keep my legs closed?
Everyone copes with being cheated on differently. Some seek out the comfort of their best friends, some go looking for revenge, some sleep with someone else. But even if you do all or none or some of these, it can be hard to express exactly how it feels to be cheated on.
Now, Im not saying you have to bounce back right away, but sometimes, the best way to get over a cheater is by showing her that your life is WAY better now than it ever was when you were with her. That might mean taking up an exercise class and getting the revenge body youve always wanted, or it might mean getting a new job and moving across the country so that you dont even have to worry about running into her anymore.
But until that day comes when you can get back to feeling like your old self the you that was confident, happy, and carefree (and not worrying about what your wife are up to you need to surround yourself with all kinds of positivity. Positive people, positive vibes, positive words; that is the only way youre going to get over a cheater. Because the more you stay in your negative mindset, the less likely you are to pick yourself up and find happiness again. Yes, its going to be hard, but the hard work is worth it in the end. You might not think of reading novels when someone hurts you, but words can be very powerful and significant when trying to find who you are again.
I kept on tossing around …I couldn’t sleep a wink.
do you think I haven’t thought about death, yes, I thought about it a thousand times but I will never end my life, when I look at my boys.?
I applied for a leave and it was approved. I just wanted some time alone to think, the boys were still at my sister’s house. I haven’t told any of my family members about what she did, I will keep. I will just divorce her.
how are you handling it ” he asked?
I have been watching people being cheated and I would tell them it’s going to be alright, now it’s me I feel like my all world has come crashing right before my eyes ” I said
just be strong for the kids” he said
I know” I said
Lord why isn’t life so easy, the way I felt I don’t know if I could do anything. I told Blessings to take some few days off,I just wanted to be alone.
Caleb ” she said with a hoarse voice
I turned and she looked a mess, her eyes were swollen, she was wearing a chitenge and black t-shirt.
what do you want” I asked?
am sorry I can’t erase what I have done but please forgive me” she cried
you are pathetic” I said
I know” she said
am waiting for my lawyer to get back from where he is, I want him to prepare the divorce papers” I said
please Caleb don’t do this to me ” she held my leg.
let go of my leg” I yelled
Caleb please” she begged
I remember what she did, and I started beating her, the pain that she has caused me I hurt her.
Caleb you will kill her” Elisha ran to her rescue.
let me kill her ” I said
beating her won’t solve anything ” he said holding me, she was laying on the floor crying.
let me kill this idiot ” I said
Caleb you want to go to jail” he asked
Elisha let him kill me “she said
Sharon let me ask you something” I said
ask Caleb” she said wiping her tears
Sharon did you use condoms” I asked
yes ” she said
how about those morning pills I found in your handbag” I asked?
I took them when we had sex, I wasn’t ready for a baby ” she said
was Andrew bigger than me did he make you moan the way I made you moan ” I asked
Caleb what kind of question is that ” Elisha asked
let her answer ” I said
he isn’t bigger than you, no one can make moan like you ”she said
liar ” I slapped her
Caleb” Elisha yelled
give me your phone ” I said
give me your phone” I yelled
Caleb just drop it ” Elisha.
man leave my house ” I said
man come on ” he said
leave” I ordered
he didn’t argue, he left.
now give me your phone ” I ordered
she unlocked it and gave it to me.
I checked her chats there was a message from Andrew wanting to see her. I checked her pics she was taking in some lingerie.
you went to see Andrew” I asked
no, I swear ” she said
who did you send these pics to ” I asked?
she was quiet. I grabbed her hair, she had braids. so, it was easy for me to punish her.
Caleb you are hurting me ” she screamed
who did you send these pics to ” I asked?
I sent it to the kabwe guy ” she said
I threw her phone to the wall.
I walked away. I wanted to beat her till she is dead.
she followed me to the lounge.
Caleb please forgive me, am willing to do anything to mend what is broken” she said
I want you to call your mother, she is needed tomorrow ” I said
why ” she asked
call your mother ” I said in a calm voice
I gave her my phone and dialed her mother’s line.
she talked to her mother and gave me back the phone.
she will be here” she said
whatever ” I walked away. I went to sleep and when I wake up, I found her cuddled up in the lounge.
the morning came and we waited for her mother she went to take a shower and an hour later her mother came.
mummy am sorry we called you here on short notice” I said
it’s okay bashi jr I was already in Lusaka” mum said
mummy your daughter here has things to tell you ” I said
what happened to your face ” mum asked?
she will explain ” I said
mummy I have been unfaithful to my husband, I was sleeping around with different men ” she said
her mum got up and slapped her.
mummy am sorry ” she cried
I never gave birth to such a girl ” the mum said
I can’t blame it on anyone but myself ” she said
am glad you have said that ” I said
you have killed me Sharon” the mum said holding her head
I want a divorce and am not taking back my words “I said
do whatever you want Bashi jr”the mum said
and go with her, I don’t want to see her in my house ” I said
Caleb our kids ” she said
you are now thinking about your kids, you are just unbelievable I said